So what’s the vibe?
This Substack is giving… “I’m not a girl, not yet a woman” but like, a decade or two later.
It’s giving “I’m not a regular mom, I’m a cool mom”.
It’s embracing girlhood, no matter how old you are.
It’s unapologetic femininity.
It’s putting bows in your hair and obsessing over pink home decor at 37 years old because you like what you like. (ok?!)
It’s a long summer drive with the windows down, Taylor Swift blasting and singing at the top of your lungs.
It’s towing the line of being cool, hot and put together, while also embracing the cringe of simply being a millennial.
It’s simultaneously feeling horrified and excited about edging closer to 40.
In short, this is a Substack for the girlies.
It’s about getting older, aging gracefully, feeling weird about it, but also realizing that getting older can mean getting wiser and hotter too.
Who are you?
I’m Kristen, and I’ve been romanticizing life since 1987. I’ve always been a quiet observer, someone who has deep thoughts on all the things. I started keeping a diary in 4th grade and basically never stopped. I started taking my writing a little more seriously in 2021 and you can find my byline in Apartment Therapy, The Everygirl, Camille Styles, Forbes Home and more. My beat is home and lifestyle because ya girl loves pretty spaces and living her best life. I’m married to my high school sweetheart, I have a poodle-bichon mix named Betty (yes after the folklore song, obviously) and when I’m not writing, you can find me at the CrossFit gym, sipping iced coffee or blasting Taylor Swift. Welcome to my cutie little Substack corner.
What should I expect?
Personal essays on being a woman and living life in your 30s. Romanticized thoughts on being a girlie at any age. A run down of all the little moments of beauty I experience during the day that make my heart swell. Favorite things lists. Hot takes. Cutie round-ups of things I love. And so much more.
Why should I upgrade to a paid subscription?
I’m so excited you’re here and reading. It means you’re here for my cozy musings, which makes me want to jump up and down tbh. Becoming a paid subscriber for just $7 a month will help me turn this creative space into a real source of income. It’s basically the equivalent of buying me an iced almond milk latte (my fav!) once a month, but it means so much more :) You’ll also have the satisfaction of supporting an independent writer with impeccable taste, amiright? Come along for the ride—we’ll share giggles, tears, and everything in between. Your support truly means the world!
Welcome to Older, Wiser, Hotter 💖
xx, Kristen
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Ahhh I just subscribed, I’m all here for the vibes 💖💖💖
This is relatable, inspiring and freeing! I should be allowed to be a girlie girl at any age. And not be driven by the fear of growing older but embracing the wisdom of each year and believing in a future of growing gracefully and beautifully. I look forward to more newsletters!